Saturday, October 22, 2011

Live up to my Role


So it's just recently that I have realized that so much is expected of me, and that I am now part of management having just taken the role of a supervisor early this year. The sad thing is it was never made very clear to me my roles and responsibilities as a supervisor. So all the while I've been acting in a way that didn't fulfill my role. And all the while I thought I was alright. Not till I just got a feedback from friends that my team lead is disappointed in me!!! So of course, that pissed me off, shoot up my blood pressure because how could my team lead say that to others and not directly to me! Okay, so we talked. And we've set the expectations very clearly now. I hope it's just not too late to live up to my role. To program my mind to this role, I am now starting to shift the genre of the books I read. Human Sigma - I randomly bought this out of a sale rack. The Rules of Work was recommended by a dear friend. Where I need improvement is on building my confidence and handling people. I'll expect to buy more books this year, more on management. Maybe next I should get something about time management - not the normal, not the usual time management books I've read. Something different and really awakening. Recommendations are welcome! I'm just getting busy and so stressed these days!!! I think I'm not working smartly. =(

I need help!!!

Exploring Philippines' Neighbors - Vietnam Day 1






The World is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page. ~St. Augustine

A very famous quote and to which I so agree. That is why I always put travelling as one of the favorite things I like to do.

Last month, my friend and I went on a 9-day trip covering 3 countries, our friendly neighbors, Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand. Three countries in such a short span of time. It was my first time to do that kind of trip. And my first long vacation outside the country. Nine days is actually long considering that it's rare to get approval of vacation leaves this long. Our first and last stop was Vietnam. Cambodia and Thailand were squeezed in between.

September is a rainy month. First day we were in Saigon or now called Ho Chi Minh was raining. Good thing though the rain was not very heavy. My friend did all the planning, she made all the itinerary while I just go and travel with her. How lucky I am to have her!

Our first day involved getting acquainted with Saigon by walking (most of the time). Instead of booking a city tour, we decided on doing it on our own. The places to see were not at all that very far.

First stop was the Ben Thanh market. Well, we wanted to do shopping on the first day as we wanted to buy Northface backpacks that we can use on our side trips to Cambodia and Thailand. Ben Thanh is big marketplace in downtown Saigon where you can buy local handicrafts, souvenirs, textiles, and even a place where you can try local cuisine (although we were not able to do the latter). And in this market you can also find really cheap North face bags/knapsacks, Adidas, Billabong t-shirts and shorts at really cheap prices. I bought my North Face backpack for only 700 Pesos, some 16USD. So cheap! Well, I don't know if it's fake but by the looks of it, it isnt! We also bought souvenirs and pasalubongs for friends and family at Ben Thanh. You can actually do some bargaining! However, the sellers first offer is really high! And if you don't know how much it actually costs, you will be fooled. That's what happened to me. The lady gave me a price twice the actual. They can really be pushy, I tell you. They won't let you go until you make a purchase.

Anyhow, after Ben Thanh, we went on to the next tourist places - the City Hall, Saigon Theater, Notre Dame Cathedral and Central Post Office. I was pretty amazed with the post office. It's not anything I've seen in Asia. The building is of old French colonial architecture that when we went inside we felt like we were in Europe.

Next stop was to get ourselves lunch. All the walking made us so hungry. We went into a typical Vietnamese restaurant. It was named Pho 24. On that day, I fell in love with Vietnamese food. My fave are the spring rolls! :)

After hearty lunch, we went to their Reunifcation Palace. Took a guided tour inside and learned about Vietnam's history. We learned from this tour that the Vietnamese are very good at creating undergrounds. You better go there to see it for yourself.

All the walking inside made us thirsty. So we decided to try the Vietnamese iced coffee. Everyone in Vietnam loves coffee. People sell iced coffee on the streets. We don't have iced coffee sold in the streets in the Philippines.

Getting to our next stop was not easy. We got a bit lost on the way to the War Museum but somehow managed to get there. The Vietnam War is one of the famous wars in the world, the fact that the powerful USA was defeated in this war. What's different in this museum from the other museums I've visited was how they presented the war. My heart was torn to pieces watching pictures of people during the War. The brutality was captured in those pictures; I couldn't bear to look at them so long. They brought me to tears. My heart goes out to all victims of the war.

Next destination was the Emperor of Jade Pagoda. It's an old temple but still being used. A cyclo driver offered to take us there for 150k VND. Only to learn later on that he overpriced us. A tourist trap! Well, let's just charge it to "charity". The pagoda was quite interesting. It wasn't at all that clean and beautiful. Observations - there were a lot of turtles in the pond. There was a hundred yr old or so turtle/tortoise (can't make a difference). They believe turtles are holy (I think). Inside you'll see two large figures of gods. It's also a bit spooky inside.

Our cyclo driver took us back to our hostel. He again charged us another 150k VND. Oh well, the goodness of our hearts didn't see he was taking advantage.

Back in the hotel, we told Auntie our host about the cyclo driver charging us 300k VND and she told us that was way too much. She comforted us by saying just think about it as charity, cyclo drivers don't earn that much.

We took a bit of rest, unpacked items we bought at Ben Thahn. And then headed for dinner...We came to this alley of restos serving mostly tourists. We stayed in downtown Saigon, so expect so many tourists in the area. I think I had a pho - another hearty meal.

We wanted to try Ben Thanh's night market. So we went there again by walking and crossing the heavily-laden-with-motorbikes streets. If there's anything that gives us a heart attack in Saigon it is crossing their streets. They don't seem to follow traffic rules! If you're not careful, you will be hit by a motorbike that came from out of nowhere!

You can practically find the same items sold in the day market at the night market, although much cheaper. And you can haggle to your heart's content! The market isn't as huge as other markets though. But it was a good place to buy souvenirs that we came back again on our last night in Saigon.




NEXT - Day 2, Cu Chi Tunnels and Cao Dai Temple

Thursday, October 13, 2011

How To Manage A Manager

I have a not-so-good relationship with my manager...we have issues, we have problems... I should have really followed these rules...i would have a better working relationship with her...well, it's not yet too late to amend things!

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If you have a manager that is a micro manager, you need to be proactive. Managing a manager is a tricky proposition, but it can be done. Keep the following things in mind as you manage your boss effectively.

INSTRUCTIONS

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Be tactful. Remember, your manager holds your career in her hands. Even if she asks for your input on her job performance, be careful how you come across, but offer something constructive.

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Get things done on time. Communicate well with your manager and let him know if you foresee any limiting factors in getting a job done.

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Go the extra mile. Anticipate the things your manager needs from you and get a head start. People are creatures of habit, so that makes knowing what your manager will want a little easier after you get to know her.

4
Make your manager look good to his manager. Know what is important to your manager's boss, so you won't put your manager in an embarrassing situation.

5
Do your homework. Before you take a proposal to your manager, make sure you have researched all the pros and cons and be prepared to show him how it will benefit the company.

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Take your concerns to your manager, not over his head, unless there is something illegal going on or there are trust issues that have arisen between you. Don't, under any circumstances, gossip about or back-bite your manager.

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Keep things on a professional level. It's ok to be friendly, but probably not ok to get too chummy with your boss. Personal relationships can be hard to manage while on the job.


Read more: How to Manage a Manager | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_2108071_manage-manager.html#ixzz1agWyEt7g

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